
I’m very thankful for the many comments that I have heard from you about this series and the ways in which it has been helpful to me. Some of you have said that you have a new appreciation for the book of Ecclesiastes and the practical wisdom that it gives to me. That is music to my ears.
One person told me a story that they thought really captured the spirit of this series and the wonderful graphic that we have been using for it:
As a young, married couple, a husband and wife lived in a cheap housing complex near the military base where he was working. Their chief complaint was that the walls were paper-thin and that they had no privacy. This was painfully obvious when one morning the husband was upstairs and the wife was downstairs on the telephone. She was interrupted by the doorbell and went to greet her neighbor, holding a roll of toilet paper in his hands. “Give this to your husband,” he said. “He’s been yelling for it for 15 minutes.”
I’m so glad this series is touching you in many ways.
scripture reading:
Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NKJV) 1 To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:
A THEOLOGY OF CHANGE
Theology, as many of you know, is the study of God. It comes from two Greek words: ‘theos’, which means ‘God’, and ‘logos’ which means ‘word’ or ‘reason’ or ‘cause’ or ‘theory’ or ‘study’.
1. God doesn’t change.
The big word here is ‘immutable’. God is immutable, which means he doesn’t change. (It doesn’t mean that you can’t mute Him.)
2. God is the Author of life.
God spoke everything into existence. Life was His idea. He created it and set it into motion as He desired to do. This applies on a grand scale—to all of creation—and also on a individual scale. He is not just the Author of Life generally, but also the Author of your life and my life. Psalm 139 says that He knit you together in your mother’s womb every day of your life was written down before you lived even one of them.
3. Life is all about change.
As we will see today in scripture but also know all to well in our own experiences, life is constantly changing. I remember being shown around my first day of work at my new job and the veteran employee describing things to me said, “You will learn that the only thing around here that doesn’t change is the fact that things are constantly changing.”
That is true about life.
Take the seasons, for example. We are coming out of a season of ice and snow moving into the season of spring. I love the changing seasons. Yesterday, when Dalene and I were driving home east of Salem, we were enjoying the beautiful day all around us. At one time we could see Mount Hood, Mount St. Helens, Mount Ranier and Mount Jefferson all stretched out before us. It was gorgeous.
4. God uses change for His purposes.
Here’s where it gets tricky. God Himself doesn’t change. God is the Author of Life, which is all about change. So God is the Author of Change (even though He doesn’t change.) Another way to say this is: God uses change for His purposes (“for every purpose under heaven” according to Eccl. 3:1).
Change, universally and individually, is part of God’s plan. It is a tool that God uses to change His changeable, or mutable, creatures.
The problem is that sometimes people see it this way: God worked this way at one time in my life (or in history). God doesn’t change. Therefore, this is the way it will always be. That is flawed thinking.
God doesn’t change, but that doesn’t mean that you can set Him in concrete and worship the idol of sameness. God doesn’t change, but He rarely does something the same way twice. There is a purpose for that. We will talk about that.
The verses that follow (v. 2-8) present 14 pairs of words that are contrasting with each other. One has a generally positive connotation and the other has a generally negative connotation. They teach us a lot about change.
[verse 3:2]
A time to be born and a time to die (circle the word 'born'; underline 'die'
Here is the first and perhaps biggest change that happens to you your entire life, you are born. You didn’t chose that direction for your life, it was chosen for you. In fact, you didn’t contribute to the process at all. You can take no credit for it.
From this very first event we learn that your life is at God’s direction and His will. We have to trust Him for the changes in life, starting from this very first one. I belong to God.
Speaking of change, I heard of a sign in a church nursery that was done in beautiful needlepoint, and it quoted the verse in 1 Corinthians 15:51, “Behold, I tell you a mystery: We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed—”
A time to plant and a time to pluck up (circle the word ‘plant’; underline ‘pluck up’)
There is a field not far from here, on the corner of Cordon and Silverton Road, that was planted long ago but was never harvested or plucked up at harvest time. The bushy vegetables that were planted have just been left there, and they have begun to rot. It stinks. Late one night, after a council meeting, one of the council members gave me a ride home. It was dark out and we were talking when all of a sudden you could smell this foul smell. He quickly said, “That’s not me. We’re driving by that rotten field.”
If you and I would refuse to change, we would become rotten like that field. Change brings life and freshness to our lives.
[verse 3:3]
A time to kill and a time to heal (circle the word ‘heal’; underline ‘kill’)
By the way, this says, “A time to kill”, not “time to kill”, like having extra time.
I would clearly chose healing over killing every time. I have prayed for many at these altars, in hospitals and other places, and I have always prayed for healing. I have never prayed for someone to be killed. This one seems like a clear choice to me. Why would it ever be ‘a time to kill’? I don’t understand that choice.
I am reminded that I don’t always understand change. Sometimes it is not what I would have chosen. Sometimes I don’t understand the change. Why? What’s going on? Even in those times, God is at work to accomplish His purposes. Do I trust Him?
A time to break down and a time to build up (circle the words ‘build up’; underline ‘break down’)
Have you ever heard a sermon about walls, maybe from the book of Nehemiah, when the preacher says, “What we need to do is, like Nehemiah, build up the walls of community!”, and then you go home, turn on your favorite tv preacher and hear him say, “The greatest need today is to tear down the walls and break down barriers”? So, are we tearing down walls or building up walls? It gets confusing. We must be discerning. In different applications, both are right.
[verse 3:4]
A time to weep and a time to laugh; A time to mourn and a time to dance
(circle the word ‘laugh’ and the word ‘dance’; underline ‘weep’ and ‘mourn’)
I am reminded that change is emotional and deals with great emotional energy. It would be wise to be sensitive to this fact when you are dealing with change or when someone else is dealing with change. Some people deal better with change than others.
Before my little nephew, Jared, was in kindergarten, he stayed at his grandparent’s my house (my mom and dad) in the mornings. Grandma would always make him eggs just the way he liked them and bacon.
One morning grandma wasn’t there, so grandpa cooked breakfast. He figure Jared was getting tired of the same old thing, so he decided to make him pancakes. He called Jared to the table and when Jared saw the pancakes he said, “Grandpa, where’s the eggs and bacon.” Dad told him he thought he might like something different this morning. Then this little three or four year old boy looked up at my dad and said, “Grandpa, I don’t deal well with change!”
[verse 3:5]
A time to cast stones and a time to gather (circle the word ‘gather’; underline ‘cast’)
This is a very interesting phrase. The reference here is to a practice that was done when an enemy was approaching against you. If it seemed that they were going to overthrow you and take your land it was a common practice to scatter stones around in your field to make it less desirous to the enemy. It made the field difficult to farm. Before farming it you would have to remove the stones. It is a ‘scorched earth’ policy, like Iraq lighting Kuwaits oil fields on fire as they retreated during the Gulf War.
When you were the conquerer and you gained additional lands, it was a time to gather stones and make the fields fruitful again.
Sometimes in change you feel like your gaining ground. Other times change comes and it feels as though you’re losing ground. How do you handle that?
A time to embrace and a time to refrain (circle the word ‘embrace’; underline ‘refrain’)
Change involves relationships. Relationships themselves need to change and mature over time. Two hard changes in relationships: starting them and stopping them. Some relationships are unhealthy and you know you need to stop those relationships, but that change is difficult. Sometimes relationships are healthy but for some reason or another, like a move or a death, the relationship has to end. That is also very difficult.
We all need healthy, changing relationships in our lives. Don’t stop building relationships.
[verse 3:6]
A time to gain and a time to lose; A time to keep and a time to throw away
(circle the word ‘gain’ and the word ‘keep’; underline ‘lose’ and ‘throw away’)
We always want to gain and not to lose (except for weight). I am terrible at keeping things that I don’t need and never throwing things away. I think, “Well, I may need this sometime.” Days, weeks, years go by and I never do. It becomes obsolete, creates clutter and becomes trash. Gaining is good, but sometimes you need to throw away for change to take place.
What about ideas, habits and beliefs? Do those ever become obsolete, creating clutter in our lives and need to be thrown out? If we’re growing and changing, I think they do. An immature idea of God is fine for a time but with greater understanding should give way to a greater understanding. Paul said to the Corinthians, “I want to feed you with solid food but you can’t get off of the milk.” (1Cor. 3:2) The writer of Hebrews says, “Let’s leave the elementary principles of Christ and move on to perfection.” (Heb. 6:1)
When was the last time that you tossed out an obsolete idea about God and replaced it with a new understanding? If never, then beware! You are in for some spiritual clutter.
[verse 3:7]
A time to tear and a time to sew (circle the word ‘sew’; underline ‘tear’)
Here is another interesting picture. On the one hand, it is talking about a routine, common chore. Things get torn and things get sewn. But there is more to it.
In scripture, tearing your garments was always a sign of mourning or grief. You would walk around in torn garments, showing everyone that you were in mourning. Then, when the reason for mourning had passed, you would sew your garment back together showing that
Some changes in life may bring a period of grief. That’s okay. What’s torn won’t always stay torn forever. It will be sewn once again. Have your sewing kit ready.
A time to keep silent and a time to speak (circle the word ‘speak’; underline ‘silent’)
I don’t even want to talk about this one… (just kidding)
There are some things of change that we can stay quiet about. The church changes the color of the carpet… that’s no big deal. The church changes from donut holes to muffins… okay, no doctrinal breach.
But when the church begins to say that the Bible is not really the fully inspired Word of God, wait a minute! I can’t sit quietly by. When it is preached that there is salvation other than in the Name of Jesus Christ, no I can’t hold my tongue.
The most important thing in change is knowing what not to change. Those are the non-negotiables. Everything else is up for discussion.
[verse 3:8]
A time to love and a time to hate; A time of war and a time of peace
(circle the word ‘love’ and the word ‘peace’; underline ‘hate’ and ‘war’)
The word hate (‘miseo’ in the Greek) is used forty times in the New Testament. The references are primarily to hatred towards Jesus: hatred towards us as His disciples; or references like, “You have heard it said, ‘Hate your enemies’. But I say… ‘Love…’”
There are only three references that I can find where we are told to hate anything, each one of those are refering to anything that gets in the way of your relationship with God:
· Mammon (money, success, abundance) (Matthew 6:24, Luke 16:13 No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.)
· This life (John 12:25 He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.)
· Even close family members (Luke 14:26 If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.)
And we know that we are now in a war, a spiritual war. The weapons of our warfare are spiritual and we battle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers. When I made a change in my life and chose to follow Jesus, I entered a war. I will hate anything that stands between me and Jesus.
Conclusion
5. I have a choice in change.
The reason that our lives must involve change is to keep us dependent on God and on hearing Him. There is no pat answer. You can’t simply rely on what happened once for all time.
Will you listen to God today for what He is saying to you right now?
Go back and look at all the circled words on your outlines: born, plant, heal, build up, laugh, dance, gather, embrace, gain, keep, sew, speak, love and peace. Those are great words. They are much better than their underlined counterparts: die, pluck up, kill, break down, weep, mourn, cast stones, refrain from embracing, lose, throw away, tear, silent, hate and war.
Maybe you will say today, “I can trust God in the circles, but not in the underlines. I will serve God as long as He keeps me safely in the circles. I don’t want to change. I want to be in the circles and stay in the circles. Circles! Circles! Circles! It’s only circles for me. I won’t accept any movement into the underlines.”
But, God uses the underlines. There is a time for the underlines. He is accomplishing His purposes in the circles and in the underlines. There is a time for the circles and a time for the underlines and in between there is change.
Will you trust God in times of change, either in circles or in underlines?